If a parent whose consent is legally required but either cannot be found to grant consent, or is legally incompetent to do so, then an application may be made to a Commissioner of Child Welfare for consent to the marriage. The judge will not grant consent unless there is sufficient evidence that the marriage is in the interest of the minor and that prior consent has been unreasonably refused. In addition to getting consent from the parents or guardian, boys under the age of 18 and girls under the age of 16 may also be required to seek the consent of the Minister of Home Affairs. Voiding the marriage of a minor A marriage contracted without the legally required consent of the parents or guardian can be made void, in other words, declared null and void by the High Court at the request of the parents or guardian: before the minor turns 21 and within six weeks of the date on which the marriage first came to their knowledge If you are a minor, you may apply for the dissolution of the marriage: before you turn 21, or within three months after turning This does not include marriages concluded in accordance with Hindu, Muslim or other religious rites. Requirements for a customary marriages For a customary marriage to be recognised as a valid marriage, it has to have been entered into before 15 November However, if entered into after 15 November it must comply with the following requirements: The marriage must be negotiated, entered into or celebrated in accordance with customary law The prospective spouses must be above the age of 18 years Both prospective spouses must consent to the marriage The parents of a prospective spouse who is a minor must consent to the marriage.
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