Our product picks are editor-tested, expert-approved. We may earn a commission through links on our site. Dec 18, Granger WootzGetty Images Going on a first datewhether in-person or via Zoom, can feel like walking a tightrope. And there's a lot you have to focus on at once, such as trying to figure out what to say while wondering if you've fully wiped off all that spaghetti sauce from your beard. All of these pressures are why a lot of guys get nervous on a first date and end up missing their shot at a second one. You don't want that to be you—and we don't want that to be you, either. That's why we spoke with a few relationship experts to get their top tips on how to make your first date less scary, more fun, and super likely to land you date number two. Make it a two-way conversation.
A long time ago the gold standard of early affiliation milestones, the dinner date's become an increasingly rare occurrence, thanks in amount to the proliferation of dating apps—which understandably favor less demanding first dates, like drinks or coffee—as the central vehicle to meet other singles. It was a concrete moment in age where a couple took things en route for the next level—a clear start of something. Most people I know, for my part included, chose near-arbitrary dates when trying to pinpoint an anniversary. Should I go by when we first slept together? Made out?
Act Up At first it may appear a bit obvious, but the austere idea of showing up goes afar just arriving. First there's the aim that a girl wants her appointment to be on time. In the information age, however, showing up agency also being present for the appointment. Phones should be shut off, texts ignored, iPads left at home. The guy's attention and intention should be right there for the date, accordingly that for at least those a small amount of hours the girl feels special. Accomplish an Effort Depending on the appointment, dress codes can vary.